Should you tell a partner you are just looking for fun?
| Do you tell a new partner that you don't want a relationship and are just after a bit of fun? |
Picture this,
You are not looking for a relationship but you meet this person that is very into you. You are very atracted to them but above all else, you only want to play around a bit.
Do you tell them this and risk having nothing or do you keep to yourself and treat the relationship the way you want ensuring you get what you are after?
Truth will always be better in the long run
Aren't you married Wendy?
Anyway, I think truth will always win out in the end. Sure you may lose the relationship before it begins but if you don't then the 'fun' you are after should be a whole lot better.
And besides, if you can remain friends by telling the truth then who's to say the situation won't change in the future, then a 'fun' relationship could be on the cards.
Take things the way you want
Just take the casual stuff the way you want.
This way you get some and hey, you may end up wanting something more after a while anway. If you tell the truth then the person could hate you and then you just lost your chance.
Tell them!
of course tell them.
Why keep stuff like that to yourself, like a hidden agenda or something. You will never really get what you want doing that.
If the person says no then big deal just find somebody else if it doesn't mean enything.
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